College golfer in hijab out to blaze trail for Muslim girls


LINCOLN, Neb. (AP) — Noor Ahmed outwardly lives her Muslim faith, and even growing up in a state as
diverse as California she says she encountered hostility on the street, in school and on the golf
One of the top junior golfers in Northern California coming out of high school, Ahmed was a starter in
her first year at Nebraska and the No. 2 player most of this spring. She is believed to be the only
golfer at the college level or higher who competes in a hijab, the headscarf worn in adherence to the
Muslim faith.
Arriving in Lincoln two years ago, Ahmed sensed hesitancy from teammates mostly from small Midwestern
towns and unaccustomed to seeing a woman in a hijab. She didn’t feel embraced until an unfortunate yet
unifying event roiled the campus midway through her freshman year.
A video surfaced of a student claiming to be the "most active white nationalist in the Nebraska
area," disparaging minorities and advocating violence. The student, it turned out, was in the same
biology lecture class as Ahmed.
Teammates offered to walk with her across campus, and one who would become her best friend, Kate Smith,
invited Ahmed to stay with her. She didn’t accept but was heartened by the gesture.
"That," Smith said, "was when she realized how much each and every one of us care for her
on the team, that it wasn’t just like, ‘Hey you’re our teammate.’ No, it’s ‘We want you to be safe, we
want you to feel at home here.’"
Having grown up in the post-9/11 era, Ahmed, like many Muslims in the United States, has been a target
for bullying and verbal abuse. She began wearing the hijab in middle school.
On the course, in an airport or even walking across campus she can feel the long stares and notices the
glances. She said she has never been physically threatened — "that I know of" — and that most
of the face-to-face insults came before she arrived at Nebraska.
Much of the venom spewed at her now comes on social media. She has been the subject of several media
profiles, and each sparks another round of hateful messages. She acknowledges she reads but doesn’t
respond to messages and that an athletic department sports psychologist has helped her learn how to deal
with them.
"I’ve been called every racial slur in the book," she said. "I’ve been told explicitly
that people who look like me don’t play golf, we don’t have a right to exist in America, you should go
home. It would definitely faze me a little bit, but it never deterred me. I’m really stubborn, so I’m
going to prove you wrong, just wait. When people think they’re dragging me down, it kind of fuels the
fire in me that I’m going to be a better golfer, I’m going to be a better student, I’m going to keep
climbing up the ladder."
The daughter of Egyptian immigrants is from a close-knit family in Folsom, California, and she steeled
herself for the cultural adjustment she would have to make at Nebraska.
She dealt with loneliness and anxiety, especially her freshman year. She had difficulty finding a support
network. There is a small Muslim community on campus, but she didn’t immerse herself in it. The demands
on athletes are great, and they are largely segregated, eating and studying in facilities separate from
those used by regular students.
Nebraska coach Robin Krapfl said she was initially concerned about how teammates would react to Ahmed.
Krapfl remembered meeting with her golfers and telling them about her.
"I could tell by a couple of the looks and maybe even a comment or two that they weren’t 100 percent
comfortable with that," Krapfl said. "A lot of our girls come from small-town communities that
are very limited in their ethnicity. It’s just the fear of the unknown. They had just never been exposed
to being around someone from the Muslim faith."
Krapfl said she saw a golfer or two roll their eyes, another shook her head. "I overheard, ‘Why
would Coach bring someone like that on the team?’ "
"Luckily when she got here people could see her for who she was and the quality of person she
was," Krapfl said. "It took a while. It really did. You’ve got to get to know somebody, who
they really are and not just what they look like."
Smith said she sometimes cringes when she and Ahmed are in a group and the conversation turns to
politics, immigration or even fashion, like when someone innocently or ignorantly tells Ahmed that she
would look good in a short dress or a certain hairstyle.
"She can never wear a short dress, so why would you want to depict her as that?" Smith said.
"You have to respect her beliefs and why she’s doing it. Also, I think a lot of things are
connected to women’s beauty standards and how people don’t think she can look beautiful when she’s
covered. I think she’s a really beautiful girl no matter how much skin she’s showing."
For all the challenges Ahmed faced, there have been positives. Some people have complimented her for
living her faith as she sees fit, a Muslim teen who golfs in a hijab and lives in the United Kingdom
wrote to says she draws inspiration from her, and a player for another college team approached her at an
event to tell her she recently converted to Islam and just wanted to say hi.
"I remember going and crying and, wow, I’m not alone out here," she said.
Ahmed said she’s naturally shy and a bit uncomfortable with the attention, but she hopes Muslim girls
coming up behind her are watching.
"I grew up never seeing anyone like me," she said. "Honestly, I didn’t realize how much
grief I was carrying, having never seen an image of myself or someone who looked like me in popular
American culture. It’s a big deal.
"Why are basketball and football so heavily African American? If I were black and I saw people who
looked like me competing in that sport, that’s probably the sport I would choose. I think it’s really
important when we’re talking about trying to make golf and other sports and other areas in American
culture diverse, how important it is to see someone who looks like you and how it will fuel other
people’s interest."
Ahmed started playing golf at 8, and her parents encouraged her to take the sport to the highest level
possible. Wearing the hijab has never interfered with her game and she has never considered not wearing
it on the course.
"I think Muslim women who choose to observe it or choose not to observe it have the right to exist
in any space they want to be in," she said, "and I would feel like I would be sending a
message that the hijab doesn’t exist in this place or it shouldn’t, and I don’t feel comfortable with

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