Local families helped by the food pantry (7-3-14)

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Sentinel-Tribune photographer Shane Hughes wanted to tell the stories
of
local people who rely on the Bowling Green Christian Food Pantry to

fill their stomachs. Six families invited him into their homes and told

him how they arrived at this place in their lives. These are the “faces

of hunger” shared by Hughes.

Joe Jordan (above) lives in a trailer next to an abandoned home in
Bradner. The home dates back to 1889 and Jordan dreams of one day buying the home and restoring it to
its original condition. He spent his entire life working as a professional cook and retired four years
ago. He and his family go down to the food pantry two or three times every month for breads and sweets.
“If you think there isn’t need out there, trust me there is … and places like the food pantry are
necessary. … There have been a few times where if it hadn’t been for them we wouldn’t have had any
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John Bixler lives in a small studio apartment in
Bowling Green. He has worked at Wood Lane since 1982. Bixler said he currently receives $15 in food
stamps each month, which is down from $200 a month previously. “Most of the time I run out of food and
that is why I go to these food pantries.” Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and macaroni and cheese are
main staples of his diet because of their affordability. Bixler said he has scavenged foods from
dumpsters in the area when students from the university throw food away when they move out of their
apartments. “I want to get stuff that’s not open, if it’s open, forget it, that can stay.” Bixler goes
to church with his mom in North Baltimore and enjoys watching cooking shows such as Rachael Ray and
Paula Deen.
Debi Love lives in a small home in Bowling Green. She and
her husband, David, run Cori’s Taxi 24 hours a day and seven days a week. “The summer is pretty tough
for us because a lot of our customer base goes away for the summer when the college kids leave and the
food pantry is a huge help when you have to pick between pay the electric or get food. There are people
who say that other people are just lazy or just using the system and why should we help them and nobody
helped me, but not everybody has the same resources.” As a single mom, before Debi married David, there
were times she felt she wouldn’t have made it without the help from the food pantry. She struggled
through homelessness, but managed to pull herself and her family out through the help she received from
friends and the community. Debi and David are always looking to give back to the community that helps
them. Over the winter they loaned one of their taxis to a single mom whose car died and was unable to
get a replacement right away. “It’s OK to need help sometimes. At one time or another pretty much
everybody does need help. It’s no shame to need a hand and later when you are in a better situation,
then you’ll be able to understand and to help someone else.”
Brie
Williams lives with her mother and an older brother in a small apartment in Bowling Green. Her mother is
a single mom who works at Toledo Hospital in sterile processing. The family does not receive any form of
government assistance, but they rely on the food pantry for breads and sweets to supplement their
groceries because so much of the monthly income goes toward rent, utilities, and gas for getting to and
from work. Brie wants to become a singer when she grows up. Her favorite song right now is “Let It Go’
from the soundtrack to the movie “Frozen.” Brie’s mother says, “Put yourself in other people’s shoes for
a second. Most people aren’t born with a silver spoon in their mouth. At any time anybody could be in
the position where they need help and if your help gets taken away, you don’t know how difficult that
can be. … If it wasn’t for the food pantry my children wouldn’t have had food that week.”
Mark Majors, who lives alone in an apartment in Bowling Green, is unemployed
and collects Social Security Disability benefits because he suffers from depression and a social anxiety
disorder. He has been on disability since 2001. Majors started using the Bowling Green Christian Food
Pantry a year ago when his food stamp benefits were cut. He is 6-foot-10-inches and he started losing
weight after his food stamps were cut and the food pantry helps him maintain a healthy weight. “That
little bit of bread helps, and the Bowling Green Food Pantry is one of the few food pantries that
actually supplies meat to people. About the only time that I eat meat is if I have it in some canned
pasta.” When asked about people’s perception of welfare recipients, Majors said, “I don’t like what I
see in the mirror. I absolutely hate it. I don’t see a person, I see a creature. … The fact is I hate
this, I hate feeling this way … I hate not being able to approach people. I shouldn’t feel this way. I
should be happier with who I am.” Majors tried to go back to school last year but was unable to continue
because of his social anxiety disorder.
Linda
Smith moved to Ohio a year ago seeking work. She has been out of work for three years and is now being
evicted from her apartment in Bowling Green. Smith would be facing homelessness if not for her friend,
Lynn, who is letting her stay with her temporarily. She said her difficulty in finding work comes from
the fact the she does not have a college degree and she is not able to lift anything more than five
pounds due to ruptured bursa in her shoulder. Smith started using the BG Christian Food Pantry in
February. “They were really sweet and they didn’t make me feel useless. They said, ‘we’re here to help’
and there was no judgement at all. I was just amazed at how generous they were. I usually go twice a
week for bread and sweets, but I can only go to the food pantry once every 90 days for groceries.” The
pantry serves regular people down on their luck. “It’s not crack addicts on the street, it’s regular
people, it’s your neighbors that are living paycheck to paycheck that are going there. It’s people you
know who you don’t even think would be going there and using these services.” Smith, who was married
with two sons, was divorced in 2006. She said her ex-husband did not pay alimony or child support and
Linda was forced to dip into her savings to support herself and her sons until everything was depleted.
One of her sons is now in the Navy and helps her financially by paying her phone bill and the other son
just recently graduated high school on June 5. If Smith can’t find work she may be end up at one of the
homeless shelters in Toledo, since there are currently no shelters for the homeless in Bowling
Green.

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